How to use Equal House
60 short how-tos, each one telling you exactly where to tap. If you can't find what you need, email us — a missing answer here is our fault, not yours.
Getting started
Set the household up once, and everything else has somewhere to go.
Set up your household
Create your family in Equal House, add everyone who lives with you, and get the first week of real work written down.
ReadInvite another adult
Share an invite link or code so a partner, co-parent or housemate can join your household on their own phone.
ReadAdd a child
Give a child a profile in Equal House — no account, no email, no password — so they can pick up chores and earn pocket money.
ReadTake the tour
A short guided walkthrough of Equal House, chapter by chapter, that you can start and stop whenever you like.
ReadChange the colours
Pick a different colour scheme for Equal House. It applies instantly, across the whole app, on that device.
ReadSet your currency
Choose the currency Equal House shows for pocket money, jars and household spending.
ReadLock Equal House
Require a fingerprint, face or device PIN before Equal House opens, so a shared or borrowed phone does not show the family's calendar.
ReadFairness
What the score actually measures, and how to make it move.
What the Fairness Score actually means
The 0–100 score on your home screen, what it weighs, why it is not a percentage of chores, and what to do when it looks wrong.
ReadGet a fairer week ahead
Let Equal House propose a redistribution of the coming week's work — and decide, task by task, what you accept.
ReadSet work schedules
Tell Equal House the hours each adult works, so the fairness maths stops expecting the same of someone who is at work.
ReadSee where the time goes
A per-person breakdown of household time by category, over a week or a month — the answer to "what am I actually doing all day?"
ReadYour week in review
A short recap of the week just gone — what got done, by whom, and how the balance moved.
ReadTasks & chores
Getting the real work written down, shared out and ticked off.
Add a task
Put a job into the household's shared list — who it belongs to, when it is due, and how much effort it really takes.
ReadMake a task repeat
Set a chore to come back daily, weekly, every few weeks or on set days — and give it a start and stop date if it only runs for a while.
ReadStart from a ready-made chore list
Pick from a list of the jobs most households actually have, instead of staring at an empty screen trying to remember them.
ReadAdd notes to a task
Attach a how-to, a shopping list or a voice note to a chore, so the next person to do it does not have to ask.
ReadPut a location on a task
Attach a place to a chore or errand, see it on a map, and open it in your phone's directions app.
ReadAdd a whole newsletter at once with Magic Add
Paste or photograph a school newsletter, a party invitation or a club email, and Equal House suggests the events and chores hidden inside it.
ReadReview what came in
ProThe queue of things Equal House has picked up from forwarded emails and suggestions — nothing reaches your calendar until you approve it.
ReadCalendar
One agenda for events, dated chores, school runs and the calendars you already keep.
Add an event to the family calendar
Put something in the shared calendar — who it involves, whether it repeats, and who needs reminding.
ReadFind your way around the calendar
Move between days and weeks, narrow the agenda to one person, and read how busy a day is before you agree to anything else.
ReadSet up reminders
Get a notification before an event or a task is due, and set the household's default so you stop having to think about it.
ReadBring in a calendar you already keep
ProSubscribe Equal House to your Google, Outlook, Apple or school calendar so work and appointments show alongside the family's week.
ReadForward emails into Equal House
ProSend the school newsletter or the club email to your household's private address, and the dates inside it turn up as suggestions.
ReadSet up the school run
Turn the daily drop-off and pick-up into a rota everyone can see, so it stops being one person's job by default.
ReadGet your school's term dates
ProAdd your child's school so term dates, holidays and inset days land in the family calendar without being typed in.
ReadPlan a children's party
Keep the guest list, timings, transport and jobs for a party in one place, instead of across four apps and a group chat.
ReadKids
Kid Mode, sign-in, pocket money and habits.
Set up Kid Mode
Give a child their own view of Equal House — their chores, their stars, their pocket money — with nothing of the grown-ups' in it.
ReadHow children sign in
The six-picture family code, PINs, and why a child can only sign in on a device a grown-up has approved.
ReadSet up a child's own phone or tablet
Send your child a setup code so they can use Equal House on their own device — without a grown-up ever signing in on it.
ReadSet up pocket money
Pay children for the chores they finish — by difficulty, or a fixed amount for a particular job — in your household's currency.
ReadSplit pocket money into jars
Divide what a child earns between spending, saving and giving automatically, so the split is a rule rather than an argument.
ReadBuild a routine
Turn a morning or bedtime sequence into a checklist a child can follow themselves, with streaks for keeping it going.
ReadMeals & shopping
A week of dinners, and the list that comes out of it.
Plan a week of meals
Build a week of dinners that turns into cooking tasks and a shopping list, instead of a daily conversation about what to eat.
ReadUse the shopping list
The list your meal plan produces, shared across the household so two people in one supermarket do not buy the same thing twice.
ReadFind a recipe
How Equal House's recipe catalogue reaches you — through a meal plan — and where to read the ingredients and method.
ReadMoney
Household spending, subscriptions and what the children earn.
Wellbeing
The quieter half — how everyone is actually doing.
Keep a private journal
A place to write down how you are actually doing, stored on your device and shared with nobody.
ReadTake a time-out
A short, guided pause — a breathing timer for the moment before a conversation goes wrong.
ReadReach out to someone you trust
Set up a trusted contact and message them quickly, without hunting through your phone at the worst moment.
ReadFind a helpline
A list of support services, ready in the app, for when looking one up is more than you can face.
ReadRaise something difficult in Safe Space
ProA structured way to say the thing you have been avoiding — with a cooling-off timer, and without it becoming a row at nine at night.
ReadSay thank you
Note the things someone did that you noticed — the counterweight to an app that is otherwise mostly about what has not been done.
ReadOther households
Grandparents, an ex, the other side of the family.
Link another household
ProConnect with grandparents, a co-parent or the other side of the family — see when they are free, and plan things together without merging your calendars.
ReadFind a time that works for two households
ProUse a linked household's free/busy to find a slot, propose it, and let them RSVP.
ReadBric & automation
Asking in plain words, and letting other tools talk to Equal House.
Ask Bric about your week
ProAsk in plain words what is coming up, what is unfair, or what to move — and approve anything it suggests before it happens.
ReadApprove what Bric suggests
ProWhere proposed changes wait for a grown-up, and what happens when you accept or reject one.
ReadAsk about your home
ProWhere the stopcock is, which paint was in the hall, when the passport expires — ask Bric, who now reads your house notes and documents as well as your week.
ReadConnect Equal House to other tools
ProLet an AI assistant such as Claude read your household's week and propose changes, using Equal House's connector.
ReadYour account
Plans, privacy, notifications and leaving.
Your account
Change your own name, see your share of the week and what is on your list, and manage your family name, the kids' code, trusted devices and signing out.
ReadWhat Equal House Pro includes
What you get on the Free plan, what Pro adds, what it costs, and how to cancel.
ReadChoose what you are notified about
The daily summary, reminders and the wellbeing check-in — and how to turn any of them down.
ReadKeep family documents
Store passports, insurance and certificates where both adults can find them, and get warned before one expires.
ReadAdd a pet
Give the animal's care a place — feeding, walking, medication and the vet — so it counts as the work it is.
ReadWrite down how the house works
The boiler, bin day, the wifi password, the meter — the things one person knows and nobody has written down.
ReadPut Equal House on a kitchen screen
A big, glanceable view of today for a tablet on the wall or the kitchen worktop.
ReadSet an exercise plan
Give someone in the household a training plan whose sessions land in the calendar like anything else.
ReadYour data and privacy
What Equal House stores, what stays on your device, how to get a copy, and how to turn off usage data and crash reports.
ReadDelete your account
How to remove yourself, or the whole household, from Equal House — and what happens to shared data when you do.
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