How to use Equal House
63 short how-tos, each one telling you exactly where to tap. If you can't find what you need, email us — a missing answer here is our fault, not yours.
Getting started
Set the household up once, and everything else has somewhere to go.
Set up your household
Create your family in Equal House, add everyone who lives with you, and get the first week of real work written down.
ReadInvite another adult
Share an invite link or code so a partner, co-parent or housemate can join your household on their own phone.
ReadAdd a child
Give a child a profile in Equal House — no account, no email, no password — so they can pick up chores and earn pocket money.
ReadTake the tour
A short guided walkthrough of Equal House, chapter by chapter, that you can start and stop whenever you like.
ReadChange the colours
Pick a different colour scheme for Equal House. It applies instantly, across the whole app, on that device.
ReadSet your currency
Choose the currency Equal House shows for pocket money, money jars and meal-plan budgets.
ReadVibration, sounds, Bric and animations
When something you did has saved, Equal House celebrates it — a short buzz and a moment with Bric, and on Android a short ta-da if you turn sounds on. Nothing celebrates in Safe Space, wellbeing or while the microphone is on. Turn each off, feel each buzz, hear the ta-da, or turn the animations down, on each phone.
ReadLock Equal House
Require a fingerprint, face or device PIN before Equal House opens, so a shared or borrowed phone does not show the family's calendar.
ReadFairness
What the score actually measures, and how to make it move.
What the Fairness Score actually means
The 0–100 score on your Tasks tab, what it weighs, why it is not a percentage of chores, and what to do when it looks wrong.
ReadGet a fairer week ahead
Let Equal House propose a redistribution of the coming week's work — and decide, task by task, what you accept.
ReadSet work patterns
Tell Equal House the hours each adult works, so the fairness maths stops expecting the same of someone who is at work.
ReadSee where the time goes
A per-person breakdown of household time by category, over a week or a month — the answer to "what am I actually doing all day?"
ReadYour Week in Review
A short recap of the week just gone — what got done between you, whether it was shared fairly, and a way to say thanks for it.
ReadTasks & chores
Getting the real work written down, shared out and ticked off.
Add a task
Put a job into the household's shared list — who can do it, when it is due, how much effort it really takes, and how to do it.
ReadMake a task repeat
Set a chore to come back daily, weekly, every few weeks or on set days — and give it a start and stop date if it only runs for a while.
ReadStart from a ready-made chore list
Pick from a list of the jobs most households actually have, instead of staring at an empty screen trying to remember them.
ReadAdd notes to a task
Leave a note on a chore, so the next person to do it does not have to ask.
ReadAdd a whole newsletter at once with Magic Add
Paste or photograph a school newsletter, a party invitation or a club email, and Equal House suggests the events and chores hidden inside it.
ReadReview what came in
ProThe queue of things Equal House has picked up from forwarded emails and suggestions — nothing reaches your calendar until you approve it.
ReadCalendar
One agenda for events, parties, school runs and the calendars you already keep.
Add an event to the family calendar
Put something in the shared calendar — who it involves, whether it repeats, and who needs reminding.
ReadFind your way around the calendar
Move between days and weeks, narrow the agenda to one person, and find an event in any month.
ReadSet up reminders
Get a notification before an event or a routine, hear once a day how many tasks you have, and set the household's default so you stop having to think about it.
ReadBring in a calendar you already keep
ProSubscribe Equal House to your Google, Outlook, Apple or school calendar so work and appointments show alongside the family's week.
ReadForward emails into Equal House
ProSend the school newsletter or the club email to your household's private address, and the dates inside it turn up as suggestions.
ReadSet up the school run
ProTurn the daily drop-off and pick-up into a rota everyone can see, so it stops being one person's job by default.
ReadGet your school's term dates
ProAdd your child's school so its term dates, holidays and INSET days land in the family calendar — filled in for you where we hold that school's dates, added once by you where we don't.
ReadPlan a party
Keep the guest list, timings, transport and jobs for any birthday in one place, instead of across four apps and a group chat.
ReadAdd a place to an event or a party
Put an address on a calendar event or a party, drop a pin on the map, and open it in your phone's directions app.
ReadKids
Kid Zone, sign-in, pocket money and habits.
Set up Kid Zone
Give a child their own view of Equal House — their chores, their stars, their pocket money — with nothing of the grown-ups' in it.
ReadHow children sign in
The six-picture family code, PINs, and why a child can only sign in on a device a grown-up has approved.
ReadSet up a child's own phone or tablet
Send your child a setup code so they can use Equal House on their own device — without a grown-up ever signing in on it.
ReadSet up pocket money
Pay children for the chores they finish and the routines they complete — by difficulty, or a fixed amount for a particular job — in your household's currency.
ReadSplit pocket money into jars
Divide what a child earns between spending, saving and giving automatically, so the split is a rule rather than an argument.
ReadBuild a routine
Turn a morning or bedtime sequence into a checklist a child can follow themselves, step by step.
ReadMeals & shopping
A week of dinners, and the list that comes out of it.
Plan a week of meals
Build dinners that turn into cooking tasks and a shopping list — three days ahead on Free, a full week with Pro.
ReadUse the shared family shopping list
One shopping list for the whole household, with or without a meal plan: your own items and your meals' ingredients, in shop order, ticked off together.
ReadFind a recipe
How Equal House's recipe catalogue reaches you — through a meal plan, or a recipe you pick on equal.house — and where to read the ingredients and method.
ReadWellbeing
The quieter half — how everyone is actually doing.
Keep a private journal
A place to write down how you are actually doing, stored on your device and shared with nobody.
ReadTake a Breath
A minute of slow breathing, guided by a circle, for the moment before a conversation goes wrong.
ReadMy Boundaries
Tell the other grown-ups what you'd like respected, and set quiet hours when nobody hands you a job.
ReadReach out to someone at home
A private conversation with another grown-up in your household, with help outside the family a tap away.
ReadFind a helpline
Free, confidential UK helplines, ready in the app, for when looking one up is more than you can face.
ReadRaise something difficult in Safe Space
ProWrite it down or say it, share it with one grown-up, and get gentle talking points and a timer, so it becomes a calm chat rather than a row at nine at night.
ReadSay thank you
Thank someone for something they did — from the task itself, from the week in review or from Gratitude — and hear about it when somebody thanks you.
ReadOther households
Grandparents, an ex, the other side of the family.
Link another household
ProConnect with grandparents, a co-parent or the other side of the family — see when they are free, and plan things together without merging your calendars.
ReadFind a time that works for two households
ProUse a linked household's free/busy to find a slot, propose it, and let them RSVP.
ReadBric & automation
Asking in plain words, and letting other tools talk to Equal House.
Bric’s page: how we’re doing
Bric’s tab shows how the last week was shared and how the days ahead look, worked out from your tasks and calendar rather than by AI. With Pro you can also ask him about your week.
ReadApprove what Bric suggests
ProWhere proposed changes wait for a grown-up, how fair each one would be, what Approve, Change, No thanks and Not me do, and how to undo one.
ReadWhat Bric knows
The short facts about your home that Bric keeps in mind when he answers: how to add, keep, change and remove them, and what he won't keep.
ReadAsk about your home
ProWhere the stopcock is, which paint was in the hall, when the passport expires — ask Bric, who now reads your house notes and documents as well as your week.
ReadConnect Equal House to other tools
ProConnect an AI assistant such as Claude to your household, so you can ask about your week and make changes from wherever you already are.
ReadKeep track of renewals: car insurance, MOT, passports
ProKeep a list of the things that fall due once in a while — car insurance, the MOT, a passport — marked Coming up in good time instead of noticed the week after.
ReadYour account
Plans, privacy, notifications and leaving.
Your Account
Change your own name, see your share of the week and what is on your list, and manage your family name, the kids' code, trusted devices and signing out.
ReadWhat Equal House Pro includes
What you get on the Free plan, what Pro adds, what it costs, and how to cancel.
ReadChoose what you are notified about
Today's tasks, reminders and the wellbeing check-in — and how to turn any of them down.
ReadKeep family documents
Store passports, insurance and certificates where both adults can find them, in shared or private folders, and set a date for anything that should delete itself.
ReadAdd a pet
Give the animal's care a place: feeding, walking and medication as shared chores with how to do each, plus the vet, documents and their birthday.
ReadWrite down how the house works
The boiler, bin day, the wifi password, the meter — the things one person knows and nobody has written down.
ReadPut Equal House on a kitchen screen
A big, glanceable view of today for a tablet on the wall or the kitchen worktop.
ReadSet an exercise plan
Give a grown-up in the household a weekly exercise plan whose sessions land on their Tasks list, on the days they fall.
ReadYour data and privacy
What Equal House stores, what stays on your device, where the AI features run, how to get a copy, and how to turn off usage data and crash reports.
ReadDelete your account
How to remove yourself, or the whole household, from Equal House — and what happens to shared data when you do.
ReadStart fresh: clear the chores and calendar, keep the family
Clear the household's chores, repeating chores, calendar events and school runs, all of them or only those before a date, and keep your family, logins, documents, pocket money and subscription.
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